On a Break… 01.08.
I’m in between wedding festivities right now. Today I witnessed the groom, Chirag, ride in on a white horse while the ones closest to him danced in their saris and tuxedos. The aunties sang while the drummer banged. The love and kindness radiated from the crowd. Family from India, and all over the US came together during these past few days to celebrate such a spiritual and happy time for them.
Apparently, Nancy and Chirag were legally married two months ago in Chicago, where they had a traditional Irish Catholic ceremony. That’s was for Nancy’s side…whereas Chirag’s side goes all out, especially since this was really all for show since they were already wed. Weddings are a huge celebration that usually last a week. Here in the states, it’s usually shortened to three days. But it’s still three days of incredible sights!
From the Mehndi, to the praying, to the singing, to the family ties, to the ornate saris, to the food, to the extravagant decor…there is literally something for every sense. Apparently the caterer came from New Jersey (one of Chirag’s favorite restaurants), the priest from LA, the decorator and band from Chicago.
As exhausted as I am thus far, I’m actually sad it’s ending. Even though most of the family doesn’t speak English, the love and appreciation is clearly communicated. I have about an hour and a half before I head up to the mill where they are having the big dance party/reception. I can only imagine what scale party this will be…hah, they know how to throw a party!
I have over 5,500 photos at this point and the night isn’t over yet. I asked Chirag if I could have at least a month to sort and process, and he certainly understood. I think Stephanie has about the same amount. I can only imagine how many we will give them. I’m looking forward to having this experience under my belt, especially sine it’s not one that comes around every day.
Alrighty, it’s on to party!